Quantum mechanics in the 20th century was a like nagging parent, telling physicist what they could NOT do: "you can't know position and momentum simultaneously", "you can't measure a system without disturbing it", "you can't describe measurement outcomes by local random variables". Quantum mechanics of the 21st century is an enabler, allowing information processing capabilities that would be impossible in a world described by classical physics. To tap into this resource, new tools must be developed, allowing us to control the way quantum systems behave. In this colloquium, I will describe recent developments along these lines, using ultracold atomic spins as our basic platform. Examples include the ability to reconstruct a quantum state in a continuous measurement and exploration of the signatures of chaos in quantum correlations.